What Women Want??

Can anyone give an full proof answer to this question?

You would understand the difficulty of answering this question when you read this old thought by the Austrian neurologist - Sigmund Freud.

This is what he had to say - The great question that has never been answered, and which I have not yet been able to answer, despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, is “What does a woman want?”

The needs and wants of women are extremely complex. Nothing conveys this better than the cartoon below.


If you are on look out of what women want, you will get bar charts like the one below. But trust me, they won't help you.


Women are always considered to be such intriguing subjects.

If you are looking for simplistic answers, then you can be friends with Paris Hilton.

This is what she has to say - Every woman should have four pets in her life. A mink in her closet, a jaguar in her garage, a tiger in her bed, and a jackass who pays for everything. 

Well, this is maybe what Million $ heiress' wants - but certainly that is not the case with millions of common women across the world.

On a practical note, I would agree with Sophie Tucker. In her book - Women Who Date Too Much - Sophie shared the following opinion about women. 

From birth to eighteen, a girl needs good parents, from eighteen to thirty-five she needs good looks, from thirty-five to fifty-five she needs a good personality, and from fifty-five on she needs cash. 

I agree with her to a fair extent. 

But with so many women out there, wanting so many things, is it possible to outline their needs and wants in a few lines in a blog post. 

The answer in a resounding "No". 

But at least an attempt can be made. And I embark upon that attempt.

First and foremost, I think women want respect. They want to command respect - from their beloveds and their family. And with the kind of things they do for the family, I think they completely deserve the respect.

Secondly, they desire for love. Nothing more nothing less.

And who gives her love? It's her man. Nothing highlights this fact better than the quote below

Every woman needs one man in her life who is strong and responsible.

A woman wants to be heard. Women are considered to be such marathon talkers, they will gel well with people who are good listeners.

A woman wants to win. Todays professional world is a competitive world, where equal opportunities are provided to people from both sexes. The women are calling the shots at many places. Her strong desire and will power to win stands out. That's why they made a movie - Woman on Top.

A woman wants to lead. Can there be better role models than Sarah Palin, Carly Fiorina, Sonia Gandhi, Angela Merkel, Julia Gillard? Nope. They lead states, nations, corporations. And that isn't an easy task.

A woman wants to share her happiness, her feelings. She firmly believes in the ideology - You gain when you share.

The list will never end. And it should not.

Woman deserve what they want. All we can do is make an attempt to give her or help her earn what she wants!!
What Women Want?? What Women Want?? Reviewed by Vyankatesh on Friday, June 25, 2010 Rating: 5

3 comments:

  1. Interesting thoughts.The more you feel that you have come closer to crack the code of what women want,there you go down,another complexity pops up in front.

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  2. Hey good post there.
    Heres my attempt at the same -
    http://bale-blog-ia.blogspot.com/2010/06/kyunki-lakshmi-wants-something-too-my.html

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