Friday, 24 December 2010

Respect

You can consider yourself lucky if you get to learn something new everyday. And in this aspect, I hope and pray to God to be lucky - always and forever.

The thing in question can be something about your work. Or about the intricate details of life. Or about relationships. Or about inter personal behavior. The list is endless.

The thought currently in question is Respect.


Recently, my dirty ugly mind was on the way of showing disrespect towards someone.

Thankfully, I nipped the thoughts in the bud and converted them into ideas and opinions which made me respect that individual. And I felt happy.

By curbing my irrational behavior resulting from this disrespect, I adopted a positive and accepting stance arising out of the feeling of respect.


And came to a very important conclusion - Respect is the most important gift you can give to someone. And this can be given without actually telling the person.

It increases the worth of that person in your opinion. And being respected, that someone also feels an increase in self esteem.

Respect results in an upswing of positivity of mind. It is cyclic and improves the quality of life in general.


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Saturday, 18 December 2010

Respect Food Save Food

Food - It is the most important thing along with oxygen and water that drives life.

Me and You can consider ourselves lucky that we can afford meals everyday to satisfy our hunger pans. After all, there are several people across the globe who do not get enough food every day - resulting in hunger, stress, ailments etc.

I try my best not to waste food. Avoiding wasting can mean taking only the required quantity of food at meal time. Avoiding wasting can mean eating what was cooked for you as you had told. 




But sometimes circumstances come up where I simply can't avoid the waste. It leaves me feeling bad and guilty.

But off late, I have observed, that when such a thing happens - I end up not getting an opportunity to eat a meal in the next few days. 

This can be due to being busy in meetings at meal time. Or coming back home late - only to realise that the cook hasn't shown up. Or not getting your required choice of vegetarian meal on a plane. And maybe several other reasons. 

Maybe this is God's little way of showing that I need to show more respect for food when it is available.


A recent incident on the need to respect food left me humbled.

In a foreign land, I was rushing to office at 7.00 o clock in the morning. After giving the keys of my room at the reception, the lady told me that my friend - who had checked out a day earlier - had left behind some food stuff for me.

I asked her - Is it OK if I collect the bag later in the evening? 

The city was Moscow, Russia and a delay of few minutes could result in getting stuck in a big traffic jam. And I had a very important meeting coming up in an hour and a half.

She replied in negative. She said that I should take the bag now itself, go back to the room and put all the stuff in the refrigerator. She said that the food stuff would spoil if I wait till the evening. And she gave me back the keys - like a commander-in-chief.

I thought for a moment and I agreed with her.

Rushing back to the room, I kept all the stuff in the refrigerator and then came running back to the reception to hand over the keys to the lady. And then I departed with a big thank you - Spasiba Bolshoi.

This hadn't taken more than three minutes. And the delay was almost negligible. And I ended up saving some food stuff.

This lady - with this very small incident - had shown me the importance we should give towards food. It is important that we take adequate steps to ensure that the food is not wasted. 

She didn't have any stake in ensuring that the food items remain unspoilt. But yet - with her basic life skills - she insisited that I respect food and save food.

She was my Hero for the day.

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Monday, 6 December 2010

Where Are You??

Life is full of ironies. And nothing illustrates this better than me myself.



I always believed that you must possess it when you are speaking. And for time immemorial, I have been insisting on it's importance. 

Yet, I find myself lacking in it. Lacking miserably. Lacking horribly. Lacking badly. :-( :-(

It seems I never possessed you.

This is the time when I need you the most. Yet, I don't have an iota of you.

Why don't you be my companion?? Why can't I summon you when I need you? Why do I find you far away when you should be close to my heart? Why do you seem so unreachable when I want you to be my trusted companion?

Confidence, where are you???

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Saturday, 4 December 2010

Why Do They Wear A Mask?

What's common between Batman, Spiderman and Phantom?




They are super heroes, usually common men doing uncommon tasks. 

And they are unified by their masked faces.

What makes these ordinary men wear a mask on their face, hiding their deep, dark mind, their innermost feelings and thoughts, their deepest fears, and go about their daily tasks?

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